A NIGHT IN WITH THE BOYS
If you've ever thought of hiring an
escort but never known the correct form you might be interested in this
from an escort in Manchester.
Here's our do's and don'ts guide to just what's expected from someone who knows
his way around a good night in.
"Most escorts are regular guys who enjoy
what they do for a living. There are many degrees of escort work, ranging from a
therapeutic massage to full-on, paying for whatever kind of desire you may have. Prices
range from about £100 an hour for just a massage to £1000 a night for higher-priced escorts in large
cities who may be staying with you overnight.
What kind of man is looking to hire an
escort? Answer: Any kind of man might hire one. It depends on your situation in life at
the time. You may have been married all your life to a woman; or someone who's married a man; you
may want to see what it's like to pay a guy for some attention, or try out something new. No matter
who you are, what position you have in life, how wealthy you are, you should not feel bad
for wanting to hire an escort.
There are some issues that you should be
aware of before you actually hire one. They are: laws and legality; prices; what to
expect; and how to prepare yourself for the experience.
Unfortunately, in many places prostitution
is still illegal. You should try to be aware of the laws of the state, province, or
country you are going to meet up in. If you decide to hire an escort from the Internet, the odds are
that you will not have any legal problems. Escorts put themselves at much more legal
risk than their clients.
In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part of
an exchange of sexual services for money is legal, but a number of related activities,
including soliciting in a public place, kerb crawling, owning or managing a brothel,
pimping and pandering, are crimes. Hiring a guy off the Internet is therefore reasonably safe.
You should always try to talk directly with the escort before you make any type of appointment.
Assure yourself that this person is friendly and professional and that the two of you are likely
to get on. Don't just ring them out the blue - text or message them first and
fix a time when the two of you can talk.
One thing you can do, as a client, is to be
up front about what you expect to get out of the session with the escort. If you have
special needs or desires, try to explain them in the best way you can. Odds are fairly
good that you are not alone in your desires, and if the escort has experience, he
has probably heard it all before.
Please don't ask to pay an escort with a
personal cheque. Usually an escort does not use his real name and this presents a problem
when he tries to cash the cheque. Just make sure you get cash, ahead of time, and avoid all
hassles with money to begin with. You can get cash advances on debit or credit cards from most cash machines.
As far as when to pay the escort, that is
usually up to him. You can ask right off and save an awkward moment during the
appointment. You may want to discreetly place the fee on a table or dresser in plain
sight. Just be sure that you count out the exact amount agreed upon. As an escort one of
the worst things is when a client underpays - the escort doesn't know if it is
intentional or not. If you have enjoyed your time with him you can always offer a little extra
at the end of the evening. It's not expected by most escorts, but it's often appreciated if they
have been particularly attentive.
Major considerations for the meet are hygiene and safety. Just as you would want the
escort you hire to be clean physically, you must expect the same of yourself. Hygiene is
very important. You should always shower or bathe before your appointment, and make sure your
clothes are clean and smart. Make sure you have plenty of good quality condoms and lube, and don't
assume that your escort will agree to bareback unless the two of you have specifically discussed it
in advance. Most guys will not.
One thing to keep in mind: escorts see all
types of men. If you have a weight problem, feel too skinny, feel unattractive, or feel
insecure about any other physical aspect of yourself, you should remember that you are
hiring an escort who is hopefully a professional and should be able to deal with any of
Other than that, if it is your first time
and you are nervous or unsure, it's okay to ask the escort for reassurance. Many guys
are used to first-timers and do their upmost to ensure that you have an enjoyable time. If
you found the guy online then do send off a review. Be kind and fair - he will appreciate your
efforts especially if you want to meet up again."
OutReach is the OutUK guide to Help and Resources for Gay Men in the UK which includes a section
on Escorts and Models.