It's gourmet goo they hunger for, like ripe
Brie. Actually, a spurt is, nutritionally speaking, not bad - low in calories
and fairly high in protein, as well as containing fructose and vitamin C. For suckees, too, ingestion has its rewards. Says one, "I know it might sound silly,
but if a guy refuses to swallow my load, I feel sort of cheated, maybe even rejected...especially
if he spits it out."
Are you on the kinky side? Verbally inclined tops get a dominant thrill from
saying, "Swallow it, you fucking cocksucker!" And many a man down on his knees
is only too happy to follow those orders - or too polite to answer back with his
mouth full.
That's not to say that spunk-swallowing is a universal passion. Some guys just can't
abide the flavour, finding spunk too salty or bitter. If you're one of them, you might
want to keep those incoming loads near the tip of your tongue, away from the
taste receptors for bitterness, or to bypass the tongue entirely with a
deep-throated swallow. And there's anecdotal evidence that ingesting some
foods - like cranberry or pineapple juice - and avoiding onions, asparagus, and
the like, may make for sweeter semen. Alcohol and tobacco, too, are said to make
cum taste icky.
Then there's the issue of risk. If the dick you desire is carrying a sexually
transmitted disease, watch out: Sucking unsheathed hard-ons is hardly safe. Plenty
of nasties, including gonorrhea and syphilis, can be caught without swallowing, and
many can even be transmitted without ejaculation taking place. Luckily, though,
the biggest and baddest of bugs, HIV, is really tough to get through giving head.
Since it appears that HIV can be passed in the mouth but not the gut, either
spitting or swallowing is safer than a lengthy swish and savor. But though
unprotected fellatio is less risky - and more popular - than fucking without
rubbers, the sad but true fact is that only a condom keeps both guys truly safe.
(Unless, of course, they're in an ongoing relationship and neither is doing risky
stuff elsewhere.)
Faced with both dick-bred danger and horny hunger, some sprightly sex fans have
figured out a workaround: eating their own spooge. "This guy I was with wanted to
jack off while he was sucking me, both of us wearing rubbers," recalls one guy.
"After we'd both come, he took off his rubber and poured his own cum in his mouth.
Sort of weird, but sort of kinkily hot, too."
Risks or no risks, many of us choose to play the odds and eat ejaculate. One top who's
been around the block says, "Hell, I don't know anybody who always uses condoms when
they're giving head. But sure, if a trick asks me to put one on, I'll oblige. And
if he asks me not to shoot in his mouth, I won't."
Still and all, plenty of men who wouldn't dream of having unprotected anal sex are
swallowing sperm. Small wonder: Many men find it a little spurt from heaven, the
breakfast of champion cocksuckers.
Eat up!
Simon Sheppard
Now here's your chance to meet the man behind this column. OutUK has an interview with Simon Sheppard or you can take a look at some of his books that are currently available:
Looking for something very sexy and just as smart? Man on Man collects the best and hottest gay sex writing by Simon, who is also
co-editor of Rough Stuff: Tales of Gay Men, Sex, and
Power as well as a collection of gay erotica called
Hotter Than Hell.
In KINKORAMA : Dispatches from the Front Lines of Perversion he takes readers behind the unmarked doors and black vinyl curtains that lead to the sometimes shocking, often hilarious, relentlessly arousing scenarios of extreme sex. There
are also stories of bears in Tales from the Bear Cult: Beat Bear Stories from the Best Magazines.
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