SPEAKING OF NIPPLESMost of us like to have our nipples played with. But some of us like our nips to be played with hard. "I'm mostly not into pain," says one eager nipple fan. "But the sensation of another guy working over my nipples sends me right over the brink - really gets me off."A guy's tits can be both tender and tough. Your hardwiring matters; some men (and their mammaries) can take rougher stimulation than others. Much Much rougher. Many a brave bottom takes as much as he can and then just a little bit more. An obliging top will be more than happy to give it to him. |
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Plenty of things can make nipples sting and sing, and some of them - fingers
and mouths - come as standard bodily equipment. Just plain digits can be
fiendishly effective, whether twisting, pinching,
pulling, or attacking with fingernails. A mouth, meanwhile, can dole out both
agony and ecstasy,
alternating nibbles and bites with licking and
sucking. "I just love," says the aforementioned tit freak, " to have some dude
come down on my tit, then suck hard."
If a top would rather keep his mouth and hands occupied elsewhere, tit clamps can serve as a stand-in. Clamps need not be fancy; even plain spring-action wooden clothespegs will do the job. (And, as an added plus, clothespegs are readily available when you bring a shag over to your granny's house.) But clamps can also be fancy; the ever-inventive Edisons of sex gear have come up with a panoply of tit toys. Narrow clamps can concentrate the pinch nastily. Other clamps are broader, sometimes even padded, and therefore more bearable during extended play. Many top-of-the-line clamps have adjustable levels of squeeze. And most pairs of clamps are connected by chains, which can be lightly tugged on for extra sensation; some pervs even hang light weights from them. Of course, tit clamps aren't the only way to make nips stand up and take notice. Those into hot-wax play find the nipples a terrific target for drips of molten candle, second only to the dick and balls in sensitivity. Hot! And then there are piercings. We don't advise doing any piercings yourself. Any play that breaks the skin requires excellent technique and fastidious infection control - the low supply of blood to the nipples makes for slowish healing and a highish probability of infection. Permanently pierced nipples provide hardware to tug on, hang weights from, or otherwise twist and tug. But not everybody's tit rings can take strenuous play. "My nipple piercings can get irritated really easily," says one piercee, "so when someone starts doing pull-ups on my nipple rings, I tell them to back off." But be it pain, pleasure, or both, nipple fun can be one of the most exciting things to happen to a chest.
Simon SheppardSan Francisco artist and activist Simon Sheppard is best known for his contributions to the erotic literary scene. He wrote hundreds of stories that appeared in S/M magazines; erotic anthologies; and over twenty editions of Best Gay Erotica and Best American Erotica. His Sextalk column has appeared on OutUK for more than 20 years. You can find out more about Simon Sheppard in this OutUK feature and tribute, or take a look at some of his many books that are still available:
Looking for something very sexy and just as smart? Man on Man collects the best and hottest gay sex writing by Simon, who is also co-editor of Rough Stuff: Tales of Gay Men, Sex, and Power as well as a collection of gay erotica called Hotter Than Hell. In KINKORAMA : Dispatches from the Front Lines of Perversion he takes readers behind the unmarked doors and black vinyl curtains that lead to the sometimes shocking, often hilarious, relentlessly arousing scenarios of extreme sex. There are also stories of bears in Tales from the Bear Cult: Beat Bear Stories from the Best Magazines. | |
