Aficionados know there's as much variation in hair as in the cocks it crowns. From
the silky, dark patch of many Asians to the golden storm of Scandinavians, from
fiery red to nappy and dark, there's a world of aesthetic delight to be had down
there. Our pubic-fur fan, for instance, enthuses, "My favourite is seeing a pale-skinned
man with abundant pitch-black hair. It's just so damn sexy."
More than a visual delight, genital hair can be a pleasure to nuzzle and lick, too.
On the other hand, it can be a thorn on the fellatio rose - stray strands can
find their way between a cocksucker's teeth at the most inopportune moments.
That's certainly one reason to trim or shave down there, and many men are doing
just that - or pulling hairs, using chemical removers, or even undergoing
electrolysis or laser removal.
Another pubic hair enthusiast laments the trend to go hairless. "I don't get it,"
he says. "Sure, it can make a dick look larger. But apparent size isn't everything.
Animal sexiness counts too, and a shaved crotch just looks antiseptic to me."
A hairless package also looks immature, echoing the obsession with youth in some
parts of queer culture. And in a kink scene, shaving another man's crotch hair
can carry overtones of infantilizing degradation.
But many shaving fans have simpler reasons to go bare. "I feel softer, more sensitive,
nd more vulnerable when my crotch is smooth. Sexier," says one.
An altered crotch-patch need not be totally denuded, of course. Unlike heavy-duty
body modifications such as tattoos and piercings, pubic hair alteration is easily
done and - with the passage of time - easily undone. Some men just trim back what would otherwise be an overgrown
groin garden. Artistically inclined souls reshape their bushes in patterns like a well-pruned "v" shape, or a
little rectangle like Charlie Chaplin's moustache. Partners of puckish fellows have
even uncovered pubes in rainbow colours. "This dude I've been seeing," smiles one alternative type, "dyed his
pubic hair blue to match his Mohawk." (Dyeing may not work very well, though, and hair-coloring
chemicals can be a bit brutal, so beware.)
Hair - be it on the head, the chest, or elsewhere - often carries a heavy erotic charge.
The pubic bush, with its proximity to the prick and its signification of sexual maturity,
is particularly sexy - as is, paradoxically, its alteration or removal. Though the
evolutionary utility of the bush may remain unclear - a cosy place for lice to live,
perhaps? - its sexual power can be strong. (Perhaps that's related to pubic hair's
possible role in broadcasting the odours of sex-stimulating chemical pheromones.)
Sure, some men may trim or shave off their groin's crowning glory. But for many
queer guys, a dick-decorating flurry of fur still holds carnal charm. Three cheers
for the short-and-curlies!
Simon Sheppard
Now here's your chance to meet the man behind this column. OutUK has an interview with Simon Sheppard or you can take a look at some of his books that are currently available:
Looking for something very sexy and just as smart? Man on Man collects the best and hottest gay sex writing by Simon, who is also
co-editor of Rough Stuff: Tales of Gay Men, Sex, and
Power as well as a collection of gay erotica called
Hotter Than Hell.
In KINKORAMA : Dispatches from the Front Lines of Perversion he takes readers behind the unmarked doors and black vinyl curtains that lead to the sometimes shocking, often hilarious, relentlessly arousing scenarios of extreme sex. There
are also stories of bears in Tales from the Bear Cult: Beat Bear Stories from the Best Magazines.
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