On one hand, there's the anonymous suck. A long-running feature of public sex, it can be
reproduced in the comfort of your own home with a do-it-yourself glory hole - a dick-sized
aperture drilled through a door or wall panel. For those lacking carpentry skills, a
blindfold makes an acceptable stand-in prop. Or just turn the lights off.|
are used, hardly any words are spoken - and when they are, they tend toward the classic
"Yeah, suck that dick." One man on his knees, the other standing with a hard-on.
Service with a suck. Simple. As one cocksucker puts it, "I love to go down on
guys. Why complicate it with personalities or chit-chat?"
For the more communicatively inclined, though, fellatio can be the foundation of
a full-fledged scene. "I met this younger guy who wanted to do a student/teacher
role play," recalls one man. "We pretended he'd never sucked anyone off before,
and I told him, step by step, exactly what to do and how. It was...well, educational."
Sucking scenes like that one often have an element of dominance and submission, with
the servicing sucker belittled as "just a wet hole." That brings up, though, the
question of who in sucking scenes is "on top." One guy who's orally versatile
theorises, "I think the idea that the sucker is submissive comes from heterosexual
stuff. But most gay men want cock in their mouths, so when a man lets me suck
him, who's really using who?"
That question is moot when the men involved switch off, or when they sixty-nine it,
sucking each other simultaneously. Even then, though, the mental trimmings can be
as hot as the feel of hard flesh. The versatile guy rhapsodises, "A hit or two of
poppers during a good sixty-nine, and my imagination goes way out there, like we're
two hungry animals feasting on each other, and all I can think of is meat."
Hunger is, in fact, a frequent theme in suck scenes. "Sometimes I'll put an ad on
the Internet and just have as many people as I can find come over and feed me
their cum," says one man with a big appetite. "I'll just be waiting at home for
them to drop by and unzip. It's strictly blow-and-go." (There are, needless to
say, health risks associated with that sort of jamboree, even if orgasm's not
involved. Though often not used, non-lubricated condoms will keep things safer.)
Face-fucking can also lend itself to major-league kinky fun, whether it's grabbing
onto the collar around a submissive sucker's neck, or tying a guy to the bed before
you pound into his throat. At the other end of the sex spectrum, oral sex can be
a sign of loving devotion. "Sometimes I'm still half-asleep when I feel my lover's
mouth on me," says one partnered fellow. "It's like a good-morning kiss, only better."
Maybe even more than anal sex, fellatio is the universal language of male/male sex.
And it's a tongue that can be spoken with a variety of accents, from gentle to jarring,
contrived to impromptu. Whether it's a furtive fast-food quickie in the back seat of a
car or an extended dessert with whipped cream on top, going-down scenes are a great
way to get off.