Over the decades Sweeden has provided us with two major
social inspirations - equal marriage and Abba. Sweden is one of the most socially and politically progressive countries in the world and
one of the first nations to legally recognize gay marriage. It also brought us Agnetha, Bjorn, Benny and Anni-Frid in the form of Waterloo during
the Eurovision Song Contest. Two of our reporters Adrian Gillan and Andrew Collins have been to Stockholm to enjoy the Smörgåsbord of delights
that this city offers. Here's Andrew's report:
The stereotype goes like this: Stockholm is a land of supremely tall
lanky blonde people with weathered Nordic features and polite but
slightly aloof dispositions. But the truth lies elsewhere. This
cultural and political hub of Northern Europe is a surprisingly spicy
diverse backgrounds, where hair, eye, and skin color reflect a steady
varied immigration movement over the past century, and where locals
visitors with warmth and openness. Gay travellers
appreciate the fact that one other stereotype about Stockholm - and
general - also holds true: it's far ahead of most of the world when it
to gay rights and tolerance.
There's an abundance of green spaces and dramatic
vistas - Stockholm occupies a vast archipelago near where Lake Målaren
empties into the Baltic Sea. The country is a trendsetter in design,
music, dining, fashion, and shopping - there's much to see and do here,
respected art museums to historic homes.
In terms of size and variety, this
is one of Europe's centres of gay life.
As one of the first nations to legally recognize gay marriages, Sweden is
the most socially and politically progressive countries in the world;
with Denmark, has been a pioneer in northern Europe.
Stockholm's City Council members are women. The city also has an
popular and well attended gay pride festival.
This is not a city with a specific gay ghetto - gay and mainstream
mingle almost imperceptibly. Gay bars and cafes are spread throughout
city, and many establishments draw a strong mix of patrons. It's a
disadvantage if you like finding all your gay hangouts in one neat
district, but the pluses are two-fold: you can find gay-friendly
in every major neighbourhood, and you'll rarely feel out of place
around Stockholm with a same-sex partner or gay friends.
View from Södra Teater, Södermalm - Henrik Trygg / mediabank.visitstockholm.com
Stockholm's restaurants are renowned for such traditional Swedish fare
meatballs, pickled herring, reindeer calf fillet, and cloudberry
A wonderful place to sample a wide variety of fresh domestic and
international cuisines is the Östermalmshallen marketplace, whose
loaded with every food imaginable, from local cheeses to salmon to
For a fine meal, consider Den Gyldene Freden. Since the early 18th
this elegant restaurant has been the haunt of politicos, lawmakers, and
A young fashionable crowd frequents Sturehof, a
dramatically renovated space overlooking the pedestrian-heavy Stureplan
has both an upscale restaurant and two always-packed bars. To
legendary smörgåsbord of gravlax (cured salmon), deviled eggs with
and glasses of the famous aperitif - aquavit - try Wärdshuset Ulla
whose 1897 building exudes charm.
A number of eateries around town maintain high visibility in the gay
community, including the lesbian-popular Blå Lotus, a New Age
cafe with a vegan menu. In one of the more bohemian parts of town,
you'll find Chokladkoppen which is famous for its
homemade sweets and cakes, plus coffee drinks and hot white chocolate.
Stockholm Pride happens every year, late July or early August, focused around a city centre parade and
concerts at Tantolunden Park. More info at
Choosing a place to stay in Stockholm isn't complicated but can involve
searching - the city has a high occupancy rate. If you get stuck, book
through the Hotellcentralen, the Stockholm Information Service's
center. In this city where ostensibly every accommodation is
you won't go wrong this way.
Photo: Jonatan Svensson Glad
CC BY-SA 4.0 via Wikimedia Commons
If money is no object and experiencing the
city's finest hotel is your goal, check into the ultra-hip Berns Hotel,
sleek rooms are decked with modern furniture and bathed in indirect
Entertain visiting friends in the stunning, vaulted two-story lobby
dine in Berns' fabulous restaurant, designed by Sir Terence Conran.
Traditionalists, however, usually stick with the Grand, an 1874 jewel
hotel with a stunning harbourside location - it has long been the choice
visiting political leaders and Nobel Prize winners. A bit less pricey,
1930s art deco Lydmar is a favorite haunt of young media and design
both as a place to stay and one to socialize in - some of the city's
bands perform regularly in the lobby's black-marble lounge.
For so large a city, Stockholm doesn't have a huge number of gay clubs,
but the several popular spots here pack plenty of punch.
Yanan Li / mediabank.visitstockholm.com
Sidetrack is a fixture in the heavily gay Södermalm neighbourhood. This cozy basement lounge draws
a neighbourhoody, somewhat butch crowd that spans all ages - a nice little
fireplace warms everybody up. Nearby you'll find the "members-only" SLM -
raunchy leather/Levi's/uniform club, a maze of dark, smoke-filled rooms
contain enough cuffs, slings, and harnesses to keep you tied up for
Visitors are welcome if they observe the dress code and pay a small
lot of the same guys, as well as many non-leather types, frequent the
Basement, a gay porn movie palace with lockers and booths, open 24hrs a day.
If you love to party, try timing your visit to Stockholm to coincide
of the more unusual weekly gay nightlife events in Europe, the party on
old steamship Patricia Gaykvåll. This moored vessel has several levels,
with a restaurant where fresh lobster is the specialty, and others with
outdoor deck areas. The crowd is young and sceney but otherwise
there's no more romantic place in this city to snog with your date than
the deck of the Patricia, looking out over the twinkling lights of
Andrew Collins authored Fodor's Gay Guide to the USA, the Connecticut
Handbook, and six regional gay guides for Fodor's.
THE LITTLE BLACK BOOK
Berns Hotel (Nåckströmsgatan 8; T: +46 (0)88-566-32200; Website)
Blå Lotus (Katarina Bangatan 21; T: +46 (0)88-644-5043; Website)
Chokladkoppen (Stortorget 18; T: +46 (0)88-20-3170; Website)
Den Gyldene Freden (Österlånggatan 51; T: +46 (0)88-10-9046; Website)
The Grand (Södra Blasieholmshamnen 8; T: +46 (0)88-679-3500; Website)
Hotellcentralen (Central Station; T: +46 (0)88-789-2490; Website)
Lydmar (Sturegatan 10; 08-566-11300; Website)
Östermalmshallen market place (Nyborg at Humlegårdsgatan; Website)
Patricia_ Gaykvåll (Stadsgårdskajen 152; T: +46 (0)88-743-0570; Website)
RFSL (Stockholm's gay community centre, Sveavågen 57; T: +46 (0)88-736-0215; Website)
Sidetrack (Wollmar Yxkullsgatan 7; T: +46 (0)88-641-1688; Website)
SLM (Wollmar Yxkullsgatan 18; T: +46 (0)88-643-3100; Website)
Stockholm Information Service (Sweden House, Hamngatan 27; T: +46 (0)88-789-2400; Website)
Sturehof (Stureplan 2; T: +46 (0)88-44-05730; Website)
Wärdshuset Ulla Winblad (Rosendalsvägen 8; T: +46 (0)88-663-0571; Website)
SAS Scandinavian Airlines offer daily flights to Stockholm from all major UK airports.
Check out the best prices at FlySAS.com. Alternatively,
KLM also fly from London, but you will find that the flights aren't cheap.
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Revised October 2023.
Adrian Gillian's review of Stockholm