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Ahoy me boys! OutUK's manly mariner Adrian Gillan drifts into port for a two-day
naval binge along the coast of the Solent doubling his time away by visiting both Southampton and
the city just 30 miles down the motorway Portsmouth.
Is it no holds barred, or will you find yourself all at sea? | 
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Our naval journey starts to the West in Southampton, where two ships once set
sail from this fair city with an aspiration to explore the Americas. One was The Mayflower
which helped colonise America with Puritanical whites; and the other, a few hundred years later,
the Titanic which sank en route to the same place, so giving us
the world's largest metaphor and three hours of Di Caprio eyeing up Winslett.
Out for the NightSo what is Southampton like for a gay night out? Well you can start the evening off by drifting down Bernard Street, along the curve that is Oxford Street, passing The Grapes pub where many of the crew of the Titanic downed their last pints, to the London Hotel pub (not a hotel) on the corner. It's billed as "Southampton's friendliest gay venue" and we'd certainly vouch for that - the staff bend over backwards to welcome all wayfarers and lost souls, to set you on your way with a smile - nightly evening cabaret and karaoke.Yet further north, there's the purple-coated gay multiplex that is The Edge, Loft & Box. The Edge is a large bar-cum-club with polls to dance around - all you'd expect plus more. The Loft upstairs offers a range of snacks and light pub grub. The Box next door is open at weekends, pumping out hard dance music. The Stage Door is Southampton's only Fringe Theatre, Live Music Venue & Bar in the heart of the Cultural Quarter, serving up some of the best Live Music, Cabaret, Burlesque, Comedy, Plays, Musicals, Children's Theatre, Cocktails, Wine & Beer and much more. They host a number of drag shows and music. In Vernon Walk you'll find the Orange Rooms Southampton which is a bar with kitsch, 70s-inspired leather sofas, pouffes and booths, for cocktails and weekly DJ nights. It's certainly camp if not entirely gay. | |
Photo: Danishaslam79 CC BY-SA 4.0 via Wikimedia Commons |
Southampton PrideActors Prateik Babbar and Sayani Gupta were filmed in Southampton in June 2022. They were on location shooting the title song sequence for their romantic-comedy Khwaabon Ka Jhamela released in 2024. They joined in the celebrations and filmed their song amidst the Southampton Pride March.Southampton’s Guildhall Square is well known as the Cultural Quarter of the city. Proud to be the hub of live music venues, museums, galleries, bars, cafes, and restaurants, this part of Southampton has developed immensely over the years to become a vibrant and arts-enriched space. |
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Southampton’s Pride movement began in Guildhall Square in 2016, with the first Pride event offering a vibrant and affirming space for the city’s
LGBTQ+ community and allies so they can come together and celebrate diversity. Southampton Pride has grown rapidly, both in scale
and impact. Apart from the annual festival parade, there's also live music, and community stalls and it's now one of the best
free Pride festivals along the South Coast.
The Pride March kicks off at 11am on Saturday 23rd August 2026 from Queens Park, travelling through the city centre before arriving at Guildhall Square. Their Main Stage entertainment runs from noon until 10pm on both Saturday and Sunday. | |
| Just a half hour's journey west along the coast from Southampton you'll find Portsmouth, the city that gave Nelson his Victory and has given sailors a warm heartfelt passage ever since. We're talking about one of the most famous naval cities in the UK or Pompey as it's known to the locals. Will it be no holds barred, or a case of being all at sea? |
Eastern Docks in Southampton. |
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Well if you're warming up for your big club night out, totter along to the
trendy Hampshire Boulevard where all the bright young things hang out ship-shape
along it's lengthy bar or in the spacious summer decks outside to the aft.
And if the old horn pipe's still strangely aloft, there's a range of options for the old shivered timbers. For a hot steamy time try Tropics Sauna, though its steamy cabins are perversely only open afternoons and evenings, not nights or Sundays - Monday afternoon is reportedly busiest for old sea hands. If it's late night fayre you're after, outdoor cruising's rife back down at South Parade around Henry VIII's little old castle by the sea, though beware - a giant straight club backs onto the area and groups of drunken het hunks have been known to cause trouble. Far safer is the gay nudist beach by day, right beneath the MoD's rotating radar, a half hour ramble along the coast. Follow the coastal road eastward until it bends left, then take the single track on the first right, between the caravan site and the MoD HQ. You'll soon reach a beach with a sign plainly foretelling of nudity. Waft yet further east along the beach and cast your towel there. The MoD radar won't be the only thing picking up naked men! | |
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Portsmouth and Southampton are just over an hour away from London Waterloo
run by a the publically owned operator South Western Railway Limited.
Information and booking at: www.southwesternrailway.com.
Revised June 2026.
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