Feeling LonelyMost people feel lonely sometimes, for many different reasons. If loneliness is affecting your life, there are things you can try that may help. Support is also available if you're finding it hard to cope with stress, anxiety or depression. Things you can try to help with lonelinessDon'tdo not try to do everything at once; set small targets that you can easily achieve do not focus on the things you cannot change - focus your time and energy into helping yourself feel better try not to compare yourself to others. On social media you usually only see things people want to share try not to tell yourself that you're alone - many people feel lonely at some point in their life and support is available try not to use alcohol, cigarettes, gambling or drugs to relieve loneliness; these can all contribute to poor mental health
Further information and supportReferring yourself for therapyIf you need more support, you can get free talking therapies like cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) on the NHS. You can refer yourself directly to a talking therapies service without a referral from a GP. Find an NHS talking therapies service
See a GP if:
- you're struggling to cope with stress, anxiety or a low mood
- you've had a low mood for more than 2 weeks
- things you're trying yourself are not helping
- you would prefer to get a referral from a GP
Call 111 or ask for an urgent GP appointment if:
- you need help urgently, but it's not an emergency
111 can tell you the right place to get help if you need to see someone. Go to NHS 111 online or call: 111
Call 999 or go to A&E now if:
- you or someone you know needs immediate help
- you have seriously harmed yourself - for example, by taking a drug overdose
A mental health emergency should be taken as seriously as a medical emergency. Find your nearest A&E
Causes of lonelinessLoneliness has many different causes and it can affect people of all ages. It's often linked with things that could prevent you spending time with other people, such as: However, you do not have to be on your own all the time to feel lonely. Many people feel lonely in a relationship or while spending time with friends or family. Other significant life events such as buying a house, having a baby or planning a wedding could also lead to feelings of loneliness. You might find it hard to explain to people why you feel this way, but talking to someone could help you find a solution. Find out more about the 5 steps to mental wellbeing Loneliness can affect people at any age, but older people are especially vulnerable to social isolation. Find out more about: |